Hey everyone! Here I am again. Another item I bought that I haven’t ever worn. I bought this over two years ago when I was looking for a holiday-ish shirt that didn’t look like a Grandma holiday shirt (not that there’s anything wrong with that – just not my style).
I thought the bright red and the festive flowers with all of that black would look elegant. Unfortunately, it just seemed flat when I tried it on at home. I thought perhaps it depended on what “third piece” I wore over the top of it. As you can see here, I’ve tried two different pieces over the tunic. Blah.
Remember a couple of months ago I shared the Tim Gunn article about how the fashion industry doesn’t design for anyone over size 12? One point he made was that clothing with a large-scale pattern made a bigger woman look like a float in a parade. I didn’t really get what that meant until I pulled this tunic out to give it another try for the holidays.
Supposedly with a pattern on an item of clothing, we don’t want too small of a pattern because it will make us look bigger and it ages us (think of your mother-in-law’s summer blouse. Ok, well, that’s what I’m envisioning). We also can’t wear too big of a pattern because it makes us look like we’re wearing a tablecloth. Sigh. More confusing “advice” from the “experts”.
I think it’s the giant flowers that don’t work for me. That, and the big, white flower on my stomach. It looks like a bullseye. That, and if there is any indent from any waistband or any button on my bottoms at that point you will see it.
Similar tunic here. Leggings here. Similar jacket here. Similar vest here.
So, what do you think? Am I over-thinking it? What do you think about the size of pattern in comparison to the size and age of the wearer? I’d love to hear your thoughts!
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35 Comments
Julia, the red in the floral pattern is such a good color for your skin tone. I think you nailed this look. Never noticed the white “target flower” until you mentioned it. I am amazed that such a large print looks so very good on you. It speaks to how well you “styled” this look. Enjoy your weekend.
Gosh, thanks Dawn. I had never thought about red being a good color but I’ll investigate that further. Thanks for your lovely comments and enjoy your weekend too!
I’ve been trying really hard to trust my instincts. If I have any doubts, the item probably isn’t right for me, or I won’t feel comfortable in it. I don’t usually like florals on me. How about a pretty plain red top with a festive scarf instead? That would work with either black topper!
Excellent point Barb! Yes, trusting our instinct is the best advice when we’re bombarded with “advice”. Thanks for reminding me and everyone else reading this!
You’re right Jules, the big white flowers are distracting. If it only had red flowers on black and if the fabric was more drapey/less clingy, I think it would look fine by itself. Luv ya!!
Ha! I love that you called me Jules! You must have a sister or close friend named Julia or Julie!
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I think your gut is giving you good advice. It’s time to donate this to pass it along to someone else. It’s a great tunic, but just not for you. I usually give things away once I’ve tried to wear them three times. The red is a good color for you, so maybe a solid red top? I really like the Olivia tunic from J. Jill, and it comes in a beautiful red.
Thanks Anne. You’re the second person to suggest a red top so that’s definitely something I’m going to try!
I agree — the white flower is a eye-catcher. It reminds me of a beautiful silk tunic I had, with Asian-style mandalas. My daughter pointed out, one of the bright pink mandalas was right over my left breast — and once I’d seen it, I couldn’t un-see it, LOL! Outrageous!
How would it be to cut the tunic up into scarves? You could cut horizontally and end up with 3-4 infinity scarves — no need to hem, just cut. The red is gorgeous!
Ha ha! A bullseye on the boob. And it was a tunic so you couldn’t wear anything over it. Oh well. Live and learn. We’ll be so smartly dressed when we’re 90!
I share a similar size chest and tummy with you but I’m 70 years old. I would never be comfortable wearing those big flowers, but that’s just me. I enjoy your blog and am learning to layer. It never occurred to me that adding something could be my friend. 😉 Thanks!
Thanks Peggy for reading and commenting! I find layering is my best friend too. Except in the summer. Then we’re estranged!
I don’t agree with the advice about the size of the print that ANY person can wear. I happen to think that it’s more about the size & silhouette & fit of that particular piece (and maybe even the kind of material).
So I hope you don’t stay away from any print. My opinion, of course!
That being said, I don’t think this tunic is bad. I would never look at your outfit and think “ugh, she should’ve worn something else”. But maybe it’s not the bestest look you’ve ever worn on the blog. But we can’t be perfect all the time, right?
If it just doesn’t speak to you with love & excitement, I am all for giving it up. Life is way to short for the boring or don’t feel good items, and then that means more shopping to replace it—yippee!
jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
Yes, life is too short to wear bad clothes or drink bad wine! Thanks for your input on the print size too. I know you are very daring in your print so I appreciate your insight.
I think you do well in holds and yournstyling in great. I’d keep it unless you really feel uncomfortable. BTW I also didn’t notice the tummy white flower.
Thanks Melinda for commenting. That is such a good point about whether or not I’m comfortable in it, rather than how it looks.
I’ve never been drawn to patterns. For me, they’re too busy and hard to accessorize without looking like my grandmother’s floral sofa. The last year or so I see everyone mixing stripes with polka dots and polar opposite patterns. A couple of times they’ve looked good, but only on someone with an Audrey Hepburn figure, and that’s not me. Brenda
Thanks for your input Brenda! Patterns do pose different challenges for accessories and mixing but I know even if we don’t have Audrey’s very slight figure we can still look good in them!
I like the top on you and didn’t notice the white flower…Here’s my criteria in the dressing room…Especially when I bring in a “large” and then an “extra large”…I close my eyes…and see how it feels, then I look in the mirror. OF COURSE, for my ego, I want the “large” to be the winner, but it has to look right for ME! I get the one that FITS my body and then cut out the tags…not just for vanity, but for the scratch factor.
I’m similar shape and size, and I don’t let a pretty pattern dissuade me…but lately, I’ve been buying more solids and snazzing them up with accessories…
Ha ha! I love it! Yes, stupid itchy tags have got to go. I think I’m hearing from most that if it doesn’t feel right I need to let it go. I love your dressing room strategy and you idea of buying solids and making the accessories do the work!
I like it and I vote keep! But you wear what you love and feel great in. Thanks for linking up and have a lovely week, xo
Patti
http://notdeadyetstyle.com
Thanks for the vote Patti!
Overthinking is my opinion, Julia. I’m no expert, and I rarely offer up advice, but I love the tunic with the bomber jacket as it looks young and fresh on you. No target/ bullseye to be seen either so forget that one. You’ve done a great job to styling this and I say keep it x
Anna
http://www.annasislandstyle.com
Thank you Anna!
Hi Julia,
Here is my two cents worth—I think the top is very flattering, so my opinion is not based on that. I just don’t really like the print, and I don’t think you do either, or you would have worn it before now. 😉 I agree with Jodie. I just have the feeling that no matter how many people tell you they like it, you don’t really like it. Keep the cute outfits coming! Always look forward to seeing what you are wearing!
http://www.over50under20.com
Thanks Susan! Yes, I think it’s going to have to find another home. Thanks for popping by!
My first time to make a comment on your blog. So here goes: I like the color combination of the red & white flowers on black with the sweater vest. Don’t think the flower pattern is too large and the ensemble looks great on you!! The only thing that’s missing is RED lipstick and a little blush, IMHO:)
Ah, yes Kay! I never think about make-up as probably evident in the pictures. I will try to remember that! Thank you so much for commenting. I really get a kick out of them!
I like it. I think it’s bold, gutsy, sassy. No apologies. I like it with the black leather jacket but not the vest. The vest is tame. The shirt, not! The jacket it helps rock it! Thanks! That was fun!
I’m glad you enjoyed it Leisa! Thanks for stopping by!
Hello Doll,
I think, weather permitting, that you should lose the second layer. Cardigan, leather jacket, etc. Add a wide leather belt ( “tying” in a Santa baby look). it will help bring in the waistline and yes, cover up the large white flower right at the midsection. Add a red scarf to frame your face and bring brightness and color upwards. The scarf/color pop would also bring focus to your beautifully ethereal hair.
Regards,
Flossy
Thanks for the tips! And I’ve never had my hair described as “ethereal”! Wow, thanks!
Ditch! You mentioned at least five different aspects or reactions (“flat”, “blah”, “flowers don’t work”, “bullseye”, and “visible indents”) and all are negative. Plus you didn’t wear it in two years. Even if everybody thinks it looks good (I think it does look good!), you don’t like it or how you feel.